Come Alone by Meet & Mint Events you can go to on your own

Not a date · Kaohsiung

Meet people in Kaohsiung without a dating app.

If dating apps have worn you out, try the opposite: a group, a task and a host. We list 15 upcoming events in Kaohsiung where nobody expects a date.

Picks

Tonight and this week in Kaohsiung nobody on a date

Six upcoming events, soonest first, free ones preferred and a mix of categories. Check the official page before you go.

Mon26Oct
CultureKaohsiung
13:00–15:20

Kaohsiung Film Festival: 'Deep Crimson', director's cut

內惟藝術中心 Reel TWO 2廳

A screening of the director's cut of 'Deep Crimson' at the Neiwei Arts Center, part of the Kaohsiung Film Festival. Film festivals are easy to attend alone — and to talk about afterwards.

Mon26Oct
LearningKaohsiung
13:30–15:30

Talk: AI-driven virtual production — generative imagery and 3D Gaussian splatting

LIVE WAREHOUSE大義C10倉庫

An afternoon session on AI-driven virtual production for film and media, from generative imagery to 3D Gaussian splatting, in a Pier-2 harbour warehouse in Kaohsiung.

Sat7Nov
MusicKaohsiung
14:00–16:00

South Taiwan Taiko: 12th anniversary drum show

高雄市立社會教育館演藝廳

Taiko drum groups from southern Taiwan come together for a joint anniversary performance at the Kaohsiung Social Education Hall. Tickets about NT$300.

Sat7Nov
MusicKaohsiung
19:30–21:30

Teresa Teng's songs in a symphonic evening at Weiwuying

衛武營國家藝術文化中心音樂廳

Best-loved songs of Teresa Teng arranged for orchestra, in the concert hall of Weiwuying in Kaohsiung.

Tue10Nov
MusicKaohsiung
19:30–21:10

Argerich Music Festival in Taiwan — Kaohsiung concert

衛武營國家藝術文化中心音樂廳

The Kaohsiung concert of the Argerich Music Festival in Taiwan, in the concert hall of Weiwuying.

Thu12Nov
MusicKaohsiung
19:30–21:30

Korea–Taiwan concert by musicians with disabilities

大東文化藝術中心

An international exchange concert bringing together musicians with disabilities from Korea and Taiwan, at the Dadong Arts Center in Fengshan, Kaohsiung.

Formats

Where you talk without pressure

These formats give you a task or a topic, so you never have to open with small talk. Pages for Kaohsiung:

  • Game nights: The game gives your hands something to do and everyone something to talk about. (all cities; nothing for Kaohsiung yet)
  • Padel and pickleball: Doubles games where partners rotate, so one session puts you on court with several different people. (all cities; nothing for Kaohsiung yet)
  • Walk and talk: Walking side by side is easier than sitting face to face. (all cities; nothing for Kaohsiung yet)
  • Book clubs and silent reading in Kaohsiung: Either you discuss one book, or nobody has to talk at all.
  • Library nights: Free, low-key programmes in a place where it is normal to be alone. (all cities; nothing for Kaohsiung yet)

How to go alone

Five steps for your first time

  1. Choose a single event with a clear start time and a host. "Kaohsiung Film Festival: 'Deep Crimson', director's cut" is a good candidate.
  2. Check the details on the official page, since schedules and prices change.
  3. Turn up a little before the start and mention to the organiser that you came alone.
  4. Keep one simple question ready ("Have you been before?") and commit to staying for an hour before you judge it.
  5. Return to the same group once more before deciding; regulars make it easier, and Meet & Mint shows who plans to attend.

Alternatives to dating apps

What actually works, compared

A neutral comparison of five ways to meet people through shared activities. None needs a profile; the last column shows what we list for Kaohsiung.

FormatWhy conversation startsWorks well if youTypical costCommitmentIn Kaohsiung now
Dinners with strangersA shared table and a host who seats youLike longer one-to-one conversationThe price of a mealOne evening, often booked aheadnone in our data yet
Run clubsYou move at the same pace and talk on the movePrefer doing something active to small talkOften free or low costWeekly; talking is optionalnone in our data yet
Language cafésEveryone is practising, so starting a chat is expectedWant a ready-made reason to talkFree or the cost of a coffeeDrop-innone in our data yet
Game nightsThe game provides the topic and something to doEnjoy light competition or puzzlesFree or a small table feeDrop-in, two to three hoursnone in our data yet
VolunteeringA shared task and a teamWant to meet people with similar valuesFreeRegular shifts matter more than one visitnone in our data yet

Questions people ask

What is a good way to make friends in Kaohsiung that is not an app?

Join something recurring with a host and a task: a language café, a game night, a walk or a class. For Kaohsiung we currently list 15 events, for example "Kaohsiung Film Festival: 'Deep Crimson', director's cut" and "Talk: AI-driven virtual production — generative imagery and 3D Gaussian splatting".

Will I be the only one on my own at events in Kaohsiung?

Not at all. At hosted events many people come alone, which is why the formats work. Arrive early, mention to the host that you are new, and you will be placed at a table or in a group.

Will I meet someone romantic at these events in Kaohsiung?

These are not dating events and we make no promises about romance: nobody is expected to be on a date. People mostly make friends and acquaintances, and anything beyond that happens naturally.

What does it cost to go out alone in Kaohsiung?

Many are free: 0 of the 15 events we list for Kaohsiung, 0 of them in the next 30 days. Others list a price on the official page.

What if I'm shy or new to Kaohsiung?

Choose a format with a task: a game, a class, a walk. You can talk about the task, and silence is fine. Stay for an hour, then decide. Meet & Mint lets you see who is going and say hello in the group chat first.

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How it works

Meet & Mint in Kaohsiung: how it works

  1. Find an event on Come Alone or in the Meet & Mint map and open the official page for the details.
  2. Join alone in the app: you see how many people are going and can read the group chat.
  3. Say hello before in the chat, so the first minutes at the venue are with names you know.
  4. Meet at the event and decide afterwards whether to go again. Nobody is on a date.

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